Oct 20, 2009

Too Much Of A Good Thing?

First thing this morning, my son gleefully unzipped his pajamas and immediately stripped down to his diaper. (Undressing is a new skill and it's very exciting. It currently needs to be practiced at every opportunity, but that's another post.)

He then flexed his 2.5 year old muscles and strutted around like a rooster.

He went to the mirror, rubbing his own chest and admiring himself. Then he announced "I handsome".

Then he started dancing nearly naked around the room and demanded I put on music.

I was then informed "I good dancer".

After I finally got him changed and into some cloths, he wanted to "help" me get breakfast ready. He carried his place mat to the table and told me "I good helper".

Later, at the playground he also announced "I good climber".

I'm thinking I better lay off the excessive compliments for awhile.

28 comments:

Dawn said...

too cute :) i love this age... when kids are realizing they can do stuff! but yeah... maybe not too many more compliments this week :)

msprimadonna67 said...

You've got to love the confidence of a two year old!

Sandee said...

I agree or he'll have an ego 10 miles wide. Bwahahahahahaha.

Have a terrific day. ;)

Janet said...

Well, it's sounds like he's got a healthy level of self-esteem! So cute!

septembermom said...

So cute! They do feel like they can conquer the world at that age. No self confidence problems at all :)

Michele said...

I think he's just fine. He'll need all that self confidence when he get into junior high.

blueviolet said...

I love it! He's internalizing all of it and that's fantastic!!!

Hit 40 said...

Oh my heavens... my boys have never offered to help me do anything. Harness this new attitude!! He can clean windows and sweep. I am not saying it will look nice, but it is good practice and training!!! He will make a great husband.

Jenners said...

Oh I so loved this! Isn't it fun seeing all your good words sinking in!? This is how confidence is built ... though now you can probably ease back on the "good boys." : )

I love love love when they get so full of themselves and how great they are. It is adorable when small but not when big. Let him rock it!

MrsM said...

I love this! It's the objectiveness of children...our son tells himself he's awesome all the time. Still, he is always quick to let his less than stellar points be known as well, and he's always complimenting others over the tiniest things so I don't think it's an ego problem, just highly tuned observation skills.

Maybe your son has that too and just can't communicate it yet!

smashmom said...

Can never compliment them too much... until they learn to really talk? I'll take note of that! :) It's really precious... You should be so proud!

Janie at Sounding Forth said...

Nah! It's working! Why mess up a good thing?

Tammy Howard said...

Oh, if only we could all feel that good about ourselves!

Cherish it - you sure wouldn't want him saying the opposite...

Jan said...

He is at a great age. But then every age is great. Enjoy.

Debbie said...

Isn't it funny how all the books are about boosting kids' self-esteem. We would be lucky to have an ounce of their self-esteem!

buffalodick said...

I didn't grow up with that much positive re-enforcement!

Oh My Goddess said...

Aside from the I good helper, he sounds just like an old boyfriend of mine.

sitting on the mood swing at the playground said...

That's adorable. I love that he rubbed his chest before declaring himself handsome!

Jeanne said...

As long as the things he says are, in some measure, true, I think it's a good thing for him to feel positive about himself.

And, let's face it, he is handsome and a good dancer!

You'll have to decide on the helper thing....

WhisperingWriter said...

That is so cute.

My daughter has been known to say, "I'm a pretty girl," several times a day.

Sprite's Keeper said...

I always wonder if we heap on the praise too much when Sprite announces she's beautiful.

bernthis said...

um, I think your son is possessed by my ex husband.

Brandy said...

no self esteem issues there. lol.

AdviceMaven said...

Yep, at that age it's all about them, but they're so cute and so proud of everything that they do. I whole heartedly agree with the person that said he'll need all that confidence for middle school.

The Rambler said...

Hahaha...so cute.

He's not mimic'ing his daddy is he? :)

But seriously I loved it. Kids are so darn awesome.

mama-face said...

No way...he'll need these once he hits school.
He is awesome. :)

Casey said...

Hahah, I was just thinking that same thing today. We're all "goooooooooo you!!" all the time but we need to lay off.

Sandy said...

No, at 2 1/2 that's great. Sounds adorable.